- Get out of the house: The outdoors help to allow the mind to focus on ways to solve the problems at hand, also, they help to clear the mind and relax when one is feeling overwhelmed
- Do your own business ALONE: Relish this time to yourself. You may find that the silence and space is refreshing.
- Notice and acknowledge the ones who care: We all have people who turn on us... friends we loose... and in the midst of all this, we often don't take the time to recognize the people who stick around through the thick and the thin, whether we want them to or not. They are the ones who are always there for us. They are the ones who we need to appreciate. So, in the spare time that you now have in the absence of your lost friends, thank the ones you still have for hanging in there so faithfully.
- Have FUN: Rock the house down. Go out and party, or stay in and host one. It doesn't really matter. Just make sure that you know that you can have fun without that person or those people.
- Be happy: Sure, you may feel like your heart was torn in two and patched the wrong way. Been there, done that. But really, it won't be like that forever. Make amends as best you can, and then look to a brighter horizon. You can be yourself no matter what friends you have. Happiness is a great way to fight depression. (Why thank you, captain obvious!) But really! Really, really! Don't go around letting one or two people ruin your entire life. It's just not worth it.
Keep you chin up. Smile. Because there's always someone on your side, whether or not you know they are.
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